From boy band fan pages, to sorority Instagram management, to unpaid internships, to embarrassingly active YouTube videos in my pre-teen years, my love for social media runs deep.
So deep, in fact, that I decided to get not one but two degrees in social media, in an effort to turn my hobby into a legitimate career.
Since then, social media has become so much more than a job; it’s become the foundation of some of the most important relationships in my life — I was literally in an Instagram friend’s wedding — and I wouldn’t have it any other way.
The entire trajectory of my life changed when my best friend introduced me to One Direction, resulting in an unhealthy obsession, and — more importantly — a fan page on social media, which I treated like my literal full-time job. This is where my chronically online identity started to take shape.
I met a fellow Directioner on Instagram, and we planned a One Direction flash mob together. (I know what you’re thinking, and yes, I’m aware of how middle-school-fangirl this was — don’t hold it against me, okay?) This is the moment I realized social media could render friends, too. I was obsessed.
After a mid-college breakdown about being an education major (ending with me realizing I do not like other people’s children), I realized I wanted to turn my lifelong hobby — you guessed it, social media — into an actual career.
My tiny liberal arts school didn’t have any social-media-related programs, so I created my own major — Mass Media Communications — and graduated with so much excitement to get started.
Because I created my own major, I wanted some more formal education in social media specifically. Enter: grad school. The University of Florida had one of the only social media Masters programs in the country at the time, so I went for it — and loved it.
I know what you’re thinking — “wait, people actually LIKE Instagram…?” — and I don’t blame you. Because people often approach social media as a tool for marketing rather than as a place to make friends and connections, it’s super easy to get so burnt out, so quickly.
& the reason *I* still genuinely enjoy social media (and have been able to maintain a healthy relationship with it for so long) is MY APPROACH.
Similarly, I’ve always treated Instagram like the place to hang out, prioritizing a fun experience designed to call in exactly who I want to hang out with — as opposed to focusing solely on what the numbers say, and how many new people are following me every month, and whether or not my Reels are going viral.
Anything from my ideal wedding flowers, to examples of 10/10 Instagram posts to share with my email list, to the next recipe on my must-try list
Multiple Jellycats (I’m obsessed, I fear), a iced strawberry matcha before noon, a crispy diet coke with lime after noon, (and my dog, Roux, at my feet, usually)
Farmer’s-market- fresh flowers (a need, obviously), a stack of my grandma’s old cookbooks (my fave recipe is a toss up between cheese straws and fried chicken, how Southern of me), and the obligatory sweet treat (Nerds gummy clusters are always a yes, but sometimes they can’t compete with my current baked good hyperfixation, which changes weekly)
The 13-hour playlist of Taylor Swift’s entire discography, the playlists I make specifically for my JDV clients based on their brand’s vibes, and the occasional podcast episode rec sent in my business bestie group chat
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& WHILE WE’RE ON THE SUBJECT OF SOCIAL MEDIA BELIEFS…
The best Reel audios are Taylor Swift songs
Social media should be FUN — no matter what you use it for
Doom scrolling will never be productive
Your dog photos will always out-perform your selfies (or maybe that’s just me?)
Strategy is a better choice than management for most people
One Direction fan pages are a great way to sharpen your social media skills (okay, that’s DEF just me)
You don’t need a degree to truly know social, but, like… you kinda do